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I have never quite reconciled myself to last summer’s leaving us. I especially miss warmth and sunshine on a day like today when the gray clouds are way too thick and a drizzle falls on and off throughout the day. I wish that there were something more interesting to write about, but I suppose I have to be content with the world as it is, instead of inventing something new. Either that, or keep driving until I hit Miami Beach.

Visiting with friends for a twelfth-night celebration helps lift the clouds a bit. But that was yesterday.

Today, more gray, and a doctor visit. Nothing is wrong — just in for a usual checkup and port flush. I was there for over four hours last visit, due to simply a pileup of long delays. The implications of that in an oncologist’s office can be too scary to imagine, so I won’t. Just hope for a shorter delay today. And I’ll bring my own snacks.

Our friends have long since let us know that, despite my spiritual leanings towards a non-Christian religious tradition, they are going to show up for a huge lunch at our house every December 25th. I have therefore come to the understanding that the dictates of friendship can equal the dictates of a classical spiritual tradition. In this light, I confess that I even wore my old Christmas earrings to lunch today.

Sue me! I had fun. :twisted:

Now playing on iTunes: Into the Silence of My Being, Pt. 1 from the album “Liquid Mind VII: Reflection” by Liquid Mind

via Shirl!


Your Holiday Personality is Fun


You’re all about the celebrating. Whether you’re partying hard or singing along to Christmas music, you’re totally enjoying the holidays.
Make your own Christmas ornaments. Create a holiday mix for all your friends’ stockings. Run around your neighborhood late Christmas Eve ringing bells.
How Should You Spend the Holidays?

My father always loved the Old West. Our house walls, downstairs, held what seemed like dozens of paintings of cowboys and soldiers and Indians, and I was brought up to revere the names of Frederic Remington, Charles M. Russell, and George Catlin. I would stare from the vantage points of the game or enemy being shot at, or perhaps just the eternal third-party, invisible vantage point. I looked at them so long throughout the years that I can see them now, hanging in the places that they always hung. They had titles, but it’s the pictures themselves that I remember.

The one whose title that I remember, Remington’s “Signaling the Main Command,” hung to the left of the bar. Its memory is thus necessarily combined with the clink of ice in glasses, and the smell of bourbon being poured. I wondered throughout the years of my growing up just what it was that the soldier with the very long flagpole was signaling, and to whom. I even asked my father once, but he didn’t know either. Remington had been dead for several decades, and there was no one else to ask.

Over the years, several of my friends (as I thought the paintings to be) were traded in for others, always, to me, of much lesser qualities, and I didn’t find it particularly necessary to use their names. I don’t even remember what they looked like.

The following is something very impressive — the power for good of networking.

Thom Allen Weblog » Blog Archive » Wanna See The Power Of Social Networking?
A few hours ago a young woman was requesting small donations to go to college. I think the starting amount was somewhere around $400. A Twitter friend of Chris Brogan mentioned this cause and Chris jumped into action. Within a few hours, and mostly through Twitter friends, people had donated enough money for the woman to meet her goal.

TechBlog: Quechup and the abuse of trust:

Trust is the single most important aspect in good relationships of all types. We become friendly and are willing to give of ourselves — personally, professionally, intellectually, even economically — when we trust who we’re dealing with. When trust is gone, business partnerships dissolve, marriages are split asunder, friendships end. If trust makes the world go ’round, its loss brings the world to a screeching halt.

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Via the always-worth-listening-to Robert Scoble… WARNING: Do NOT load Quechup « Scobleizer:

I’m late on writing about this, but I was worried that I’d actually help this company out. Why? Because whenever I write negatively about a company tons of you to check out the company and some of you even like the services I’m ragging on.

But this has gotten so bad that I think I need to write about it and explain just how bad this company is. Please read this post all the way through if you are one of those who think I’m an idiot and therefore anything I hate must be something you should try. If you do that with this company you’ll spam all your friends and you’ll be extremely pissed.

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I’ve been spending too much time over on my tumble-blog, which almost works like this one. There is no comment ability, though. Instead, one links to other tumble-blogs by adding them as your friends. You can see, in your work area, the list of your “liked” tumble-blogs, as well as a list of who links to you.

It’s meant for faster blogging, if such can be thought of. Well, yes it can be thought of… it’s a place for snippets and bits and pretty pictures that you see other places, and want to collect. Think of it as a sort of shared scrapbook.

It can get overwhelming, too, especially when someone you link to imports all of his and his friends’ flicker streams, which get stuffed into your inbox too. But what the heck, mostly it works.

Now I have to think of a reason to get rid of Twitter. Please, help me back to sanity!!

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