Scent and memory

Every evening, my father used to make these, one for him, one for mom. She didn’t used to drink, before they married, but he taught her. A non-drinking wife would be too embarrassing. The smell of adulthood: 1 and 1/2 jiggers of Kentucky Bourbon (Virgin Bourbon preferred) 1 teaspoon sugar water as desirable ice: much Continue reading Scent and memory

What to learn

Things that I wish to learn before I die: How to light a fire with flint and steel How to tell time by the sun How to know which plants to eat Five languages If it’s dark, and maybe rainy, and I want to sleep, how to make a roof over my head. I want Continue reading What to learn

Reunion

Today I go to my high school reunion – nothing big, just a potluck lunch. I bring the soda pop and bottled water. I still think of us all as teenagers, and wonder at the ties between us, even though we’ve spent many more years apart than together. Nightmares, of course, about who may be Continue reading Reunion