From an article by Anna Quindlen in Newsweek:
Separate, Not Equal at All – Newsweek Society – MSNBC.com
The argument in orthodoxy is usually that women are separate but equal, an argument that made racial segregation—and flagrant inequality—possible for many years in the United States. Power is not relinquished easily; fear of the other is an enduring human handicap. “What orthodoxy is partly about is fear,” says Rabbi Joy Levitt. “The world is moving very fast, and not all of it is positive.” But ultimately many faiths came to the conclusion that strictures on women were the product of outdated norms and entrenched prejudice, not sacred texts. Their leaders embraced the possibility that modern equality could abet spiritual growth. Rabbi Levitt recalls the words of the founder of the Reconstructionist movement, Mordecai Kaplan: “Tradition ought to have a vote, not a veto.
I’ve sensed that all along about the Catholic Church but didn’t know how to express it better — they’re afraid of us. We have cooties.
In Judaism, I feel a willingness to change. In Catholicism, none. I left the church long ago because I was unwilling to accept the boundaries. I won’t undergo spiritual foot-binding. Judaism doesn’t require that of me.